March 15, 2011

• Realizing a few things lately.....

  1. Pessimism, negativity, and depression comes from seeing reality as reality. The reality is.... real life is very depressing. There's nothing about this world that is optimistic. So negative people sees things as they really are. On the other hand, positive people sees things as what they could be through faith. And us Christians are to live by faith, and we really should be the happiest people on earth, because we don't see things as they really are, but what God can do with them. So we live by faith, and not by sight. And when I say sight, I meant reality, feelings, and etc etc.

  2. Passive-aggressive behavior is contagious and toxic! I didn't realize how many forms passive-aggressive behavior comes in before.... and I'm so guilty of it! The "I don't care, just do whatever you want", "is there something wrong?" "no, nothing".... it's so toxic. The more you do it, the more the poison seems to infiltrate you so that you do it more and more.... it's like the negativity just spreads all over you. Better just to admit whatever you need and just go the right way....

  3. Admitting your own weakness is liberating. It gives true freedom.

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